I wasn’t sure what to write for this week’s blog. Our Knight suggested I write something about Vegas. I’m not sure how to do so without it being an emotional train wreck of a blog post, but I will give it a try. When I woke up Monday morning it was to find my daughter … Continue reading Look For the Helpers
I find myself continually interested in how other people do relationships. Sometimes it’s with awe, sometimes thought provoking in that maybe I had never thought of something in that light and often times sadness because I have been where they are and remember the hurt. I recently read something on how being helpful could be … Continue reading Differences and some of the things they remind me.
Our Knight wrote this over a year ago at a time when I had yet to become a part of the family. Back then I was always fascinated, not only by how they lived, but how they loved. He speaks with love in his heart when he talks about how going from a single man … Continue reading My Compass of Love
I've been trying to think of blog topics that could be useful toward answering some of the most common poly questions I've been asked. One topic I've heard over the years, is... So, it's not that serious, then? Or in the instance of power authority, So, you never want to be the primary. I'll tackle … Continue reading Not that serious then?
This is a topic near and dear to my heart. It’s something I work on daily and often have to relearn. It isn’t my normal way of thinking but more of something I’ve been teaching myself over the last few years. We tend to bring about our own suffering and it is mostly the result … Continue reading Adaptability, Expectations and Letting Go
I think one of the non sexual poly questions I’ve been asked most over the years has been about jealousy. But don’t you get jealous? Jealousy is a fear based emotion. It comes about when the fear of losing someone or something takes over. I think for the most part this is usually automatically seen … Continue reading Jealousy
As we creep up there in age, shit starts to happen. It’s pretty funny, in many ways I am much healthier than I was in my 20’s. I eat better, sleep better and pretty much just overall take better care of myself. I definitely don’t always feel better though. As do all four of us, … Continue reading Health and Well-being
I’ve been a bit off kilter the last few days. There are probably many reasons why, but yesterday morning after a horribly restless night, I slept through the alarm I set to be able to get up and talk to my Mist family before they headed off to work. This had me super bummed. We … Continue reading Sharing Love
If I had an actual nemesis, it would be change. Being a creature of habit, change and I don’t get along very well. I would like to say I roll with the punches and adapt well but that would be a right out lie. I am eventually able to change my way of thinking and … Continue reading Change, the only constant
When I think about the idea of being a Mists Girl what sticks out the most is being adaptable. Maybe because that is what I have struggled with the most but being flexible and adaptable is a must in our world. It can be little things like we are going out tonight instead of going home … Continue reading Kyra- To be a Mist Girl